by Bob Sparrow

Investing can be a fun and exciting way to make money. To many times the young investor doesn’t understand some of the most basic rules of investing. This causes the first time investor to loose money and get discouraged; thus quitting altogether. That isn’t the answer to wealth and riches.

This is a lesson that I learned later on in my investing life. I started investing without any control over the investments that I was in. I automatically thought that the people I gave my money to were going to be concerned with my money as much as I was. That is wrong! People are people no matter where you go, and it is first nature to look after our own possessions and interests before we look after someone else.

As I started investing my father would always tell me “No one cares as much about your money as you do”. I had invested with a friend and I automatically thought that he would put my interest first, and for the most part he did. It was inappropriate for me to think that he would care and look over my money as I would. Why? It wasn’t his! He hadn’t sweat, and worked hard for that money. Knowing this now, I take all control of my money as I know that I am the only one who will care for it as I will.

The first thing we must know and understand is that your broker is not responsible for your money PERIOD! He is there to get you in and out of trades, suggest some trades, give his opinion, but in the end we have to make the decision, and we have to live with that decision. (Unless we have totally given the money to him and he is “managing” your money) My first trade lost me money, a lot of money. I was initially angry with my broker and called him up. I asked him why he didn’t tell me to get out of that trade. He simply responded, “because you didn’t tell me to”. When we loose control and don’t watch over our own money, we will ultimately loose money in the end.

When we work side by side with our brokers we will make a lot of money. When we educate ourselves and ask educated questions to our brokers. When we can sit down at night and say, “I invested in that trade because I think it will make money because.”, and then list several reasons! This is having control, and this will ensure a very rich future and a life worth dreaming about.

Let’s think about control over money like this. Have you ever loaned your car to someone? Did they take care of it like you would have liked them to? Probably not! You tell them to put a certain kind of gas in it and they forget before they get around the corner. You almost cringe as you know that your car is not in good hands. Well, it can be the same way with money! Except that money when it is damaged or lost can hurt a whole lot more!

It really isn’t that hard to be a successful investor. There are people out there that are not as smart as you making a lot of money in Forex trading. These individuals are doing well because they take control of their money and invest wisely.

When trading in the Forex market you can keep 100% control of your money. Even when trading online through a trading platform you make all of the decisions. You set your own stop losses and can determine how much you are willing to loose. Most trading platforms have a live person to help walk you through your trades if you need them. This is most definitely in favor to you making more money. When you can combine their help with your decision making you can be very profitable.

If Forex trading is something that interests you then I would encourage you to get online and read some more about how to trade successfully. Click on the links in the bio box and read some more articles. There is even a free e book that you can download to get you started in Forex investing.

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